3-Seconderisms

Penang, Malaysia
Huge fanatic of coffee who tries to juggle the roles of being a devoted mother, loving wife, caring daughter, thoughtful daughter-in-law, professional pharmacist, ethical businesswoman, understanding boss and lastly, a spontaneous personality.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Change over time and 3 yrs into marriage

It has been a relatively busy month for me (not to mention being ultimately broke), seeing that I have attended 3 weddings. The ultimate highlight wedding was definitely the union of my two ex-classmate from secondary school in Singapore. Since both of them do not patronise my humble blog here, I can safely share their fairy tale here, as a reminder to all single ladies out there who are still seeking for 'The One'  :-)

Back in my secondary school days, my girl friend has always been the belle of the class. A huge majority of boys were secretly or openly having big puppy crush on her. Come valentine's or her birthday, I had to render a helping hand in either 1) passing presents to her or 2) holding her presents received from secret or not-so-secret admirers.

So anyway, the GROOM was one of the not-so-secret admirers of my friend belle back in our secondary school days. All through the four years in secondary days, this guy never formally confessed his love for belle. 



It was only years later where their paths crossed again. Maybe it's fate / destiny. The Groom decided, this round of meeting with belle again, he HAS to woo her and not let her slipped by again. And we're all glad he did, for if not, I wouldn't be attending their wedding! But more importantly, I am truly happy for both of them, to have found each other in amidst of the crazy crowd of people that swift in and out of their paths, to have found love and understanding.


And with a journey that laid a million obstacles between them yet they managed to conquer it... this is what I call True Love :-)




It was great, certainly, meeting up with old friends. Besides seeing the union of two people whom I know (to some extend) and share the happiness of seeing them start a new chapter of their life together; I met up with a couple of my good ole' secondary school mates. When you put 3 girls together (regardless of age) who haven't met each other for years, what you are going to have is, definitely endless chatters. The bride even commented she has absolutely no worries of us being bored, seeing that we almost did not stop chatting. It is true to what the bride has predicted, 3 of us talked non-stop lah. To the extend that even after the wedding dinner, we bombarded the bridal hotel room to continue yakking, with the difference that the bride joined in too :)

Presenting to you, ex-2B classmates who were present for the wedding. Look at us! Omg! How much we have grown!
One of the best is going through Singapore, a place once so familiar yet strangely unfamiliar now. A lot has changed, be it the people whom I know or the infrastructure and city skyline of Singapore. As I was standing in the MRT, I realised the old pang of sadness and ache which I felt in my heart has long gone. 

Tears used to roll down my cheeks during my past few visits to Singapore, but of course, those were the times where I have not met him yet. Now standing in the MRT with him, walking through and talking him through the youthful days which I had spent in Singapore, I feel touched and held his hand tighter.

For without the courageous decision of my family and myself in leaving Singapore after my 'O' levels, the missing puzzle would never have been complete in my life. I would never have met him. 




For he has been one understanding, tolerant, loving and compassionate husband. This month, coincidentally with all the weddings, mark our 3 year anniversary. For many more years to come, I wish to say, sweetie, I love you and all our quirky chats. Be it my silly acts, or your silly jokes, I love it all. And I wish upon every stars that JD will grow up with our quirkiness and may our life journey be filled with laughter.

Of course, it is impossible. Yes, I do know it. When obstacles are due to come I wish we have the strength as a whole to conquer it all :-) 

And I promise you that I will try to be a little more tidy :)

3 comments:

Inspector Clouseau said...

Nice work. I came across your blog while “blog surfing” using the “Next Blog” button in the Nav Bar at the top of my blogspot blog. I occasionally just check out other blogs to see what others are doing.

3-Seconder said...

wonderful thanks for your serendipity fall into my blogosphere. hope to see u more often :)

p/s: you have a nice blog too! :)

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