Pardon for the increasingly lack of updates, will try to buck up as much as possible. Thing is, and truth to be told, it is much simpler to update via Facebook. I don't need to configure my thoughts or draft out the paragraphs like a blog entry. I don't need excellent command in English, or careful selection of words to match as much as how I feel / think.
But yet, many thoughts can't be put into full description with a mere few words. Hence, I'm seeking solace with my blog. To pen down some thoughts that I can't possibly fit into the status update bar in FB. Either that, or I simply can't mention certain things without letting some others knowing some facts of a certain person.
Anyway, earlier this month I went down south to Singapore to meet up with my sis's family. It was great, needless to say, family time is bliss since we don't tend to meet up often. The kids enjoyed the most, although each tod was down with a particular problem
Natalie - Mild flu
Anya - Fever
JD - Hyperactive
Amongst spending time with my family, I arranged dinner with an old friend seeing that I didn't have the opportunity to meet him during my previous trip to Singapore. =HB, JD and I went to Novena Square for a simple dinner with this friend who rushed over after work, beating all the Friday traffic. A gesture that I am very grateful of, knowing that he even bothered to get off work earlier when I told him that JD needed to get an earlier rest. Who knows, in the end we were the one being late.
Things went on well. JD was behaving relatively 'ok' despite him throwing food onto the floor and being picky at the food we had, and even wanted to eat my friend's dinner instead. I have to say, places around Singapore are so baby-friendly. Even the staff around all the FnB places are so fond of kids, or maybe they're trying to be nice while silently cursing me for letting JD run around the place / making a huge mess. But at least, on the front service line, I see polite and caring people :)
Since my dear boy has a short attention span of being still, =HB brought him around the mall to take a walk, while I can have some decent catching up times with my friend. Not that I have anything much to update to anyone, so most of the time I was basically trying to understand my friend's latest relationship status.
Call me a conservative nerd. Imagine my 'square' brains digesting a fact for one to fall in love with another married person, happening in real life (not that it doesn't happen in real life, but that it happens to people around me). For countless moments I sat there blank, speechless.
My standard square morals tell me that it isn't right.
But my heart tells me that I ought to support my friend because if this is one true love for him, what am I to justify and judge?
Honestly speaking, I am still being judgmental. Mostly because I am worried of my friend getting hurt and that the other person isn't serious and only looking for a 'no-strings attached' fling? Of course I know chances can be that this other person who's married IS serious to be with my friend and that a divorce is coming along the way. If so, at least I can see light between my friend and this person.
But there's just this nagging thought in my head.... that things might not be so simple.
Then I try telling myself that, maybe I am over thinking!!!
And then I ask myself, WHAT THE HECK AM I LOSING MY BRAIN CELLS OVER PEOPLE'S MATTERS?!
Ought to do some serious thinking of what colours I should dye my hair instead. It's currently a little too bright for my liking yet still too fast to be changing colours. What to do ?! Urgh!
Anyway, I sincerely wish the best of luck to my friend.
I pray that he finds the true love, of someone worthy of his love and loving him back with all her heart too.
I pray that I am indeed overthinking and being judgmental, so at least the love is true between them.
I pray that for everything that they need to go through in the future, their love and compassion is strong enough to get by every obstacles.
I pray that everything works out well for them, as hope.
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